Both Grace and Ben had their Christmas programs and they were so stinking adorable.
Grace sang her little heart out. She got to be on eof the "special kids" that walked a present to the manger. She was so excited. I have to say I was so proud of her, she practiced those songs over and over and really gave it her all up there. She definitely has a passion for music in her heart.
Benjamin (after he stopped crying) went on stage and sang his heart out as well, and at 3 and a boy he did well. He sang all the favorite parts of his songs. Made some adorable faces while up there and waved at me about a million times. I was proud of him for going up there and showing his "Mad Skills" he calls it and looking super cute while at it with his little sweater vest and tie.
My little ones are really special and I was reminded in all the chaos of the season just how quickly they are growing up. This Christmas is poised to be really special and I hope that I can make them understand just how special they are to me and not get caught up in the hectic run around the holidays seem to have all the time. They only get to be 5 and 3 for one year, so I am going ot savor my time with them and not worry about all the rest.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Agonizing the Decision
Well the holidays are in full swing and so is holiday gift buying. And if you are a mother or maybe even just a woman buying gifts can be an agonizing task, at least it is for me. I can spend hours on the internet just looking for the perfect gifts that I think my kids will love. I can return a million items just to replace them with a million more just to doubt that maybe the first gifts were the better choice and return them again to get the first million I bought. Yes, the walmart customer service ladies shriek when they see me and my ten thousand stapled together receipts for all the returns and exchanges I have made. I however shriek when I add all the receipts together and my best laid budget plans go into the toilet.
Then there is the other side of the spectrum instead of too many options and returning and exchanging and returning and exchanging to get the perfect gifts there are people like my dad who are impossible to buy for. What does he want, he doesn't know, I surely don't know, and gift cards are out because he hates to shop. Trying to come up with a gift for my dad (and really my brothers too although they like money any time) is like trying to solve a quadratic equation, you go through the brain hurting steps and agonizing line by line to get to what you hope is the correct answer. So what are my options 1. My mom says he wants a pressure cooker??? A what??? For what??? What kind of gift is that??? 2. Car detail - My dad is kind of picky and enjoys detailing his own car. 3. New floor mats for his car - too easy to order the wrong thing since I know nothing about cars and a pain to return if they aren't right. 4.New Phone - out of my price range 5. DVD player for his bedroom - Boring. So one of these options will be picked just have to agonize about it a little bit longer before I make my final answer . . .ugh.
Happy Holidays!
Then there is the other side of the spectrum instead of too many options and returning and exchanging and returning and exchanging to get the perfect gifts there are people like my dad who are impossible to buy for. What does he want, he doesn't know, I surely don't know, and gift cards are out because he hates to shop. Trying to come up with a gift for my dad (and really my brothers too although they like money any time) is like trying to solve a quadratic equation, you go through the brain hurting steps and agonizing line by line to get to what you hope is the correct answer. So what are my options 1. My mom says he wants a pressure cooker??? A what??? For what??? What kind of gift is that??? 2. Car detail - My dad is kind of picky and enjoys detailing his own car. 3. New floor mats for his car - too easy to order the wrong thing since I know nothing about cars and a pain to return if they aren't right. 4.New Phone - out of my price range 5. DVD player for his bedroom - Boring. So one of these options will be picked just have to agonize about it a little bit longer before I make my final answer . . .ugh.
Happy Holidays!
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Meeting the Neighbors
The house we live in on post is a quadplex. So that means we have a family that lives above us in a house that is a duplicate to ours. Well, a few nights ago my wonderful husband asked me to make one of his favorite late night snacks, bacon wrapped smokies. They are little smokies, wrapped in bacon covered in brown sugar and then broiled til crispy. They are delicious, but a pain to make because the are so messy when they cook and they tend to smoke a little due to the broiling of the sugar and fat. So it is about 12:45 at night and we are watching a movie while the snacks broil away and then we begin to hear a loud shrieking noise and an automated voice saying, Fire!! Fire!! Low and behold the very miniscual smoke has set off the most sensitive smoke alarms ever made in our building . . . that's right, you got it, not only do our fire alarms go off but seeing that it is a shared building so do the ones in the home above ours . . . at one o' clock in the morning. So of course the husband from upstairs come to check to make sure everything is okay, and it is, but none the less, not the way I wanted to meet our neighbors.
Thanksgiving
I cooked a turkey for Thanksgiving, seems simple right? Not for me, no I like to complicate things whenever possible. I decide I am going to go with all the rage this year and cook the turkey breast side down, seems simple right? Flip it over into the foil pan cook. So the night before thanksgiving I am looking up a recipe and I notice I need a V shaped rack or something like that to cook the turkey on. I don't have a V shaped rack, so I call my mom (at 12:00 am her time) to ask her what I should do. She helps me improvise, so what did I end up with? A 17 lb turkey (that was the smallest turkey they had) balanced upside down precariously on my broiler rack which is then balance on top of my handi foil throw away roaster pan. I do have to say, it did work out, the turkey was moist and delicious, but I think I might just invest in the v shaped rack it would have made my life a lot easier. I also think I might just get to the store earlier so I don't have turkey for 20 with my family of 4.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Lists
Things I didn't expect:
1. Before we joined the Army I never expected Peter to be able to assemble and disassemble an M-16 in 3 minutes.
2. I did not realized that there could be so many acronyms for things that you would need a 100 page dictionary just to figure out what people are saying.
3. I did not expect so many people to ask the question, "What made you join the Army?"
4. I did not expect that the traditions of the military would mean so much so quickly as a new Army wife.
5. I did not realize that I could fit everyone's clothes into two small closets.
6. That it could be crazy windy today with temps of 30 and dry and 70 degrees the next day. How do you dress for weather like that?
7. That speed limits of 25 could be so prevalent (like every street I drive on it feels like. (Speed limits on post are strictly enforced and you do not want to get a ticket from an MP - Very Bad.)
8. That my car can actually go 5 miles an hour when that is the posted limit and that I can actually walk faster than that (probably).
9. I did not realize I would ever love to wear jeans (and I do now seeing that it is cold here). Hoping that I can love closed toed shoes, I am a die hard flip flop fan currently even at 30 degrees.
10. I did not realize what a blessing the Army life would be to me and my family. It is an experience that has changed the Dell family for the better the experience thus far has been priceless for us.
1. Before we joined the Army I never expected Peter to be able to assemble and disassemble an M-16 in 3 minutes.
2. I did not realized that there could be so many acronyms for things that you would need a 100 page dictionary just to figure out what people are saying.
3. I did not expect so many people to ask the question, "What made you join the Army?"
4. I did not expect that the traditions of the military would mean so much so quickly as a new Army wife.
5. I did not realize that I could fit everyone's clothes into two small closets.
6. That it could be crazy windy today with temps of 30 and dry and 70 degrees the next day. How do you dress for weather like that?
7. That speed limits of 25 could be so prevalent (like every street I drive on it feels like. (Speed limits on post are strictly enforced and you do not want to get a ticket from an MP - Very Bad.)
8. That my car can actually go 5 miles an hour when that is the posted limit and that I can actually walk faster than that (probably).
9. I did not realize I would ever love to wear jeans (and I do now seeing that it is cold here). Hoping that I can love closed toed shoes, I am a die hard flip flop fan currently even at 30 degrees.
10. I did not realize what a blessing the Army life would be to me and my family. It is an experience that has changed the Dell family for the better the experience thus far has been priceless for us.
Missing Member
But during this time (since early October actually) Peter has been away at OBC (Officer Training) in San Antonio, Texas. It is December 1st and it feels like he left ages ago and I just miss him terribly today more than any other day thus far. Doing life everyday without him is like trying to ride a bike with no hands - doable but not as easy, the balance has to be just right or you will crash. I know what you are thinking that it comes with the military life you chose, but it still doesn't make it any easier. I know that our time apart is almost over for now (2 1/2 more weeks to go), but in truth, this seperation has served as a reminder that we no longer have control over when he is home or when he is gone and I have to be totally honest, the thought of him being gone for a year scares the s*** out of me, excuse my french. I just am not sure what it would be like to lieterally lose a year of his life intertwined daily with mine. I know that it is going to happen at some point (in a very etherial manner of speaking), and I know that we will make it through it, but I still won't like it (like any one does, right!).
And Babe, if you are reading this, I want you to know that loving you is what is right with my world. Knowing that just me alone is enough for you is a gift greater than you can imagine for my heart. As time has passed from February my heart has healed, our relationship has blossomed again, but the day I read the note you wrote me in the field saying my love for you was the most valuable in this life was the day I truly came to believe you, not just in my head but in my heart completely as well. I love you, I always have, and I always will whether we are next to each other on the couch or thousands of miles apart, my love for you is unceasing and the love I get in return from you is priceless to my heart and soul.
Okay so that was longer than I anticipated it would be, but nonetheless there it is, my heart overflow for the night.
And Babe, if you are reading this, I want you to know that loving you is what is right with my world. Knowing that just me alone is enough for you is a gift greater than you can imagine for my heart. As time has passed from February my heart has healed, our relationship has blossomed again, but the day I read the note you wrote me in the field saying my love for you was the most valuable in this life was the day I truly came to believe you, not just in my head but in my heart completely as well. I love you, I always have, and I always will whether we are next to each other on the couch or thousands of miles apart, my love for you is unceasing and the love I get in return from you is priceless to my heart and soul.
Okay so that was longer than I anticipated it would be, but nonetheless there it is, my heart overflow for the night.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween
So I took the kids trick or treating tonight with a friend of mine and her kids. Wow! I think every child within a 10 mile radius was also out as well, leading me to wonder, if all the kids and their parents are out, then who is left to hand out candy? Nonetheless, there were people handing out candy to my little pirate and fairy.Going trick or treating is quite the adventure when your kids are 3 and 5. We started out strong, running, laughing, playing, all fun and games. Things were going good as we rounded the corner of the street, they were excited to be with there friends and dying to eat the candy they already had gotten.
Now as we go to the second block things began to deteriorate slightly. There was some whining, but not too much. However, as we rounded the corner on the second block (the furthest point from our starting point) things went under in a hurry. The kids (mainly Ben) are whining that their feet hurt and their baskets are heavy. Benjamin is lagging so far behind its ridiculous, leading my friend to ask, "Is this overwhelming for him (AKA: Is he always this slow?)." To which I respond, unfortunately, yes he is always this slow the kid doesn't get staying with the group, or hurrying in any way shape or form. It is a foreign concept to him, he resides in the World According to Ben and everyone else needs to get on board. In his mind he isn't the slow one, we are all just going too fast. And even as I listen to Ben tell me he is done and wants to go home, something in me wants to keep going from house to house, why might you ask do I want to continue the torture that is trick or treating when my kids no longer care to get anymore candy? Well, the buckets aren't full and for some reason it seems like they should be full! Keep knocking, get in line, just because it isn't fun anymore doesn't mean we stop we press on until we have conquered EVERY SINGLE HOUSE!!!
Now I have to say that although my gut reaction is the one stated above, we did stop and head back home when the kids stated they were done and wanted to go home and play, the mother in me took over my overacheiver mindset and we trekked and yes I do mean trekked, dragging my pirate and trying to control my fairy who was so hopped up on sugar she might have actually been able to fly given the chance back home to play for a little bit.
Going trick or treating with preschoolers is kind of like eating 2 fat pieces of rich chocolate cake. Each bite seems so delicious and the second piece doesn't seem like a bad idea until it is all consumed and you feel sick to your stomach like you are about to explode and you never want to see chocolate cake for a long while. Trick or treating is so fun at first, the kids look so cute, they are having such a good time on the first block you go to so you think lets continue the fun and go to a second block until you get to the back corner of the block and you realize no one is having anymore fun, the kids aren't as cute, you aren't as cute as you snap orders to stay out of the street and you don't want to see one more lighted house giving out candy that you will have to stop at, you just want to get back to square one, take off the costumes and not see halloween decorations for another year.
Well, the night is over, the halloween festivities which have encompassed our entire weekend are over, the costumes hung up, the kids are fast asleep, and the candy is calling my name as I resist the urge to raid their pumpkins for anything gooey and chocolate. Although I am glad that the night is done and normalcy will reign again as Monday arrives, in all seriousness, I did enjoy watching the little faces of my pirate and fairy as they looked with wonderment at their full pumpkins and all the candy like it was a million dollars sitting right in front of them. It is amazing how easy it is to thrill little ones. A $17 costume changes their whole persona and a bucket full of candy makes their night. They are precious and sweet and I look forward to lots more halloweens to watch them thrill over costumes and candy.
So I have been MIA for a while as we have began settling our life here in OK. So what might you wonder has been up with the Dell's?
We are super excited that our house is coming available in ONE WEEK! We are currently living in a little apartment and without 90% of our things which all remain in storage. I have taken for granted having a plethora of baking dishes, all my clothes (specifically a jacket!), couches, chairs, and all the little things you don't realize you use all the time (envelopes, markers, stamps, pictures). Cooking with one baking dish and one mixing bowl is shall I say challenging?! I have never washed dishes so often in one night just making dinner. But I get to view the house on the 9th and then we can move in! And bonus it is on the first level! Our apartment that we have now has two flights of stairs, one set to just get in the house and then one to get to all the bedrooms and bathrooms, that's right you have to go upstairs just to go to the bathroom, and yes it is inconvenient, but soon to be over!
Peter is away right now for training and we are missing him terribly. We are actually going to see him next weekend and the kids and I are super excited to see him!
Grace and Ben are enjoying school and we are all trying to acclamate to the weather. It is not the same as Florida . . . duh. Last night was in the high 30's low 40's I believe? Quite a change from the 80 degrees in the south.
So I am back on the horse and will update more often now that we are in the swing of things, sort of.
We are super excited that our house is coming available in ONE WEEK! We are currently living in a little apartment and without 90% of our things which all remain in storage. I have taken for granted having a plethora of baking dishes, all my clothes (specifically a jacket!), couches, chairs, and all the little things you don't realize you use all the time (envelopes, markers, stamps, pictures). Cooking with one baking dish and one mixing bowl is shall I say challenging?! I have never washed dishes so often in one night just making dinner. But I get to view the house on the 9th and then we can move in! And bonus it is on the first level! Our apartment that we have now has two flights of stairs, one set to just get in the house and then one to get to all the bedrooms and bathrooms, that's right you have to go upstairs just to go to the bathroom, and yes it is inconvenient, but soon to be over!
Peter is away right now for training and we are missing him terribly. We are actually going to see him next weekend and the kids and I are super excited to see him!
Grace and Ben are enjoying school and we are all trying to acclamate to the weather. It is not the same as Florida . . . duh. Last night was in the high 30's low 40's I believe? Quite a change from the 80 degrees in the south.
So I am back on the horse and will update more often now that we are in the swing of things, sort of.
Friday, August 21, 2009
Happy Birthday!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY LOVE!!
Happy Birthday to the man I love. I hope that your day is special. Just a few special things about you!
1. Only your humor can get me in stitches at the most innocuous thing.
2. Your smile lights up a room.
3. Your quiet strength and caring spirit makes you more attractive to me every day.
4. Your children adore you and your ability to be a human jungle gym is amazing.
5. Only you can wear a blanket cape and make it look good!
6. Who else can I trust to be my human GPS within 6 minutes of arriving in a new place?
7. You look good in ACU's, when you leave for work I wonder, "Who is getting their butt kicked today, Hooah!?"
8. Your intelligent and the best problem solver I know.
9. You care about me and even let me be a little ridiculously crazy at times (i.e. Grace's school, the king bed, need I go on?)
10. You love me and our kids and we love you, we are a family and I wouldn't have it any other way, and that in my opinion is pretty special!
I love you my dear and I think you are an amazing man. I am so glad that we are taking this amazing journey together. I look forward to all that the next 20 years hold and can't wait to open our bed and breakfast. I love you with my whole heart!
Your Wife
Happy Birthday to the man I love. I hope that your day is special. Just a few special things about you!
1. Only your humor can get me in stitches at the most innocuous thing.
2. Your smile lights up a room.
3. Your quiet strength and caring spirit makes you more attractive to me every day.
4. Your children adore you and your ability to be a human jungle gym is amazing.
5. Only you can wear a blanket cape and make it look good!
6. Who else can I trust to be my human GPS within 6 minutes of arriving in a new place?
7. You look good in ACU's, when you leave for work I wonder, "Who is getting their butt kicked today, Hooah!?"
8. Your intelligent and the best problem solver I know.
9. You care about me and even let me be a little ridiculously crazy at times (i.e. Grace's school, the king bed, need I go on?)
10. You love me and our kids and we love you, we are a family and I wouldn't have it any other way, and that in my opinion is pretty special!
I love you my dear and I think you are an amazing man. I am so glad that we are taking this amazing journey together. I look forward to all that the next 20 years hold and can't wait to open our bed and breakfast. I love you with my whole heart!
Your Wife
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Family
So we are headed out tomorrow for Oklahoma. Our new home with the army and I had the last dinner with my family tonight. It was alot of fun recounting memories, playing games and eating a meal. I am really close with my family and I am going to miss them all so much. I never really envisioned myself leaving my family "for real," and now the day is upon me. I will miss my dad and his witty demeanor and even though it drives me crazy, his opinionated comments. I will miss my mom, my best friend, she is always there to help, to hug, to laugh, and to comfort. She has been my shoulder to lean on and cry on for as long as I can remember. I will miss my brother Billy who was my best playmate when I was little. What other brother would be your dance partner when you were obsessed with dancing and singing. I will miss my brother Ryan who is passionate about whatever he does. He can love big and is the person you want on your side, no matter what. My family is great and I will miss them alot. I am already looking forward to coming home.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Whining
Whining . . . just the word is annoying. Peter and I have been trying to teach the kids (mainly Ben) to just use his words to ask for what he wants instead of whining about everything and every little thing requiring tears. Tonight was a small success followed by a reverting back to whining. I guess I am just being paid back for all of my whining as a kid and as a teen. In fact, when I was talking to Ben tonight I was reminded of working at Winn Dixie as a teenager. Why you might ask . . . well that is were I met my lovely husband of ten years. I was a cashier, he was the front end manager (however, he was not my manager, he was the manager over the baggers really, although I am sure he would disagree, this is the truth.) Peter used to say that I was a whiner with a poor work ethic (very suave right??) and one day presented me with a new name badge that instead of saying my name said "Whiner." What about my whining was so attractive, I don't know but it must have worked, because here we are.
Nonethless, we are tackling the whining. If you here of a woman who chose to go voluntarily deaf, it may be me. Am I whining right now about whining????
Nonethless, we are tackling the whining. If you here of a woman who chose to go voluntarily deaf, it may be me. Am I whining right now about whining????
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Road Trip
So we have been on a road trip to check out our future digs here in Oklahoma. I don't think I ever thought that I would say that I will be or live in Oklahoma, but exciting none the less. We have spent the last two days in the car with our two little ones. It is 20 hours from Riverview to Lawton. It is quite a haul. The first day seemed to fly by, but the second . . . not so much. I think the last 3 hours from the middle of nowhere Texas to Lawton was like an entire day all in itself.
During the trip I drove for a while, and of course I prefer to drive when there is no exits to get off of and I can just set the cruise and not worry about getting everyone lost. I am the only person on the face of the planet that has the uncanny ability to get lost while having a GPS tell me exactly where to go. And of course I take over and I end of driving through Dallas, Texas, I think I only stayed on each road 5 miles each and to make matters worse it was like 5:30-6:00 drive time traffic. I think possibly my worst driving nightmare. My wonderful husband, who needed a break, stayed awake and helped me navigate all the road changes, exits and traffic.
Our kiddies were really angels on the trip, with the exception of the necessary to every road trip bantor like, he's touching me, she has more pillow than me, I can't see the dvd, She's pressing the buttons, and the mother of all questions: Are we in Oklahoma yet? Tehy weathered all the sitting well, and I am really proud of them. Which will be rewarded with some hotel pool time tomorrow.
We have (obviously) made it here safely and we are getting settled into our Best Western hotel room (the lap of luxury) and are excited to check out the area tomorrow.
We are having dinner with another military family tomorrow night as well and looking forward to making a connection here in our new home to be. It will be nice to see a friendly face when we return to stay for good!
During the trip I drove for a while, and of course I prefer to drive when there is no exits to get off of and I can just set the cruise and not worry about getting everyone lost. I am the only person on the face of the planet that has the uncanny ability to get lost while having a GPS tell me exactly where to go. And of course I take over and I end of driving through Dallas, Texas, I think I only stayed on each road 5 miles each and to make matters worse it was like 5:30-6:00 drive time traffic. I think possibly my worst driving nightmare. My wonderful husband, who needed a break, stayed awake and helped me navigate all the road changes, exits and traffic.
Our kiddies were really angels on the trip, with the exception of the necessary to every road trip bantor like, he's touching me, she has more pillow than me, I can't see the dvd, She's pressing the buttons, and the mother of all questions: Are we in Oklahoma yet? Tehy weathered all the sitting well, and I am really proud of them. Which will be rewarded with some hotel pool time tomorrow.
We have (obviously) made it here safely and we are getting settled into our Best Western hotel room (the lap of luxury) and are excited to check out the area tomorrow.
We are having dinner with another military family tomorrow night as well and looking forward to making a connection here in our new home to be. It will be nice to see a friendly face when we return to stay for good!
Friday, June 19, 2009
Happy Father's Day
Happy Father's Day Babe! I wanted to find a way to honor you and let you know what a great dad I think you are to our babies. So here are some of the things I think make you an extra special daddy.
1. You laugh at the kid's jokes even when they aren't funny.
2. You strive to make our daughter feel like a real princess.
3. You let Ben ride on the mower with you even though it would probably be faster and easier without him.
4. You can make even things that aren't fun like brushing teeth and going to bed an adventure.
5. You say I love you all the time.
6. The kids feel like they can talk to you because of your grace and kindness with them.
7. You always make sure to give them hugs and kisses before you leave each day.
8. You leave them little notes even though they can't read.
9. You give in to their silly wants like blue and pink cups after you have already poured milk in a red one, an entire glass of milk with cereal (which is totally unnecessary), sitting in the number two chair, or doing it over because that isn't the way Mommy does it (as Grace would say.)
10. You can be a kid with them and find the true joy in being a parent even though being a parent can be exhausting.
I see in you the heart of our Father, you have a deep desire to really know our kids, not just to raise them to be good people that make a difffernce in this world, but to really truly know them. To know their passions, their weaknesses, their loves, likes, and dislikes. To know their true heart and soul and to guide them and direct them according to that, not according to what job will make them most successful or what school will make them the smartest. I love the way that you love them. No we don't always get it perfect, shoot sometimes we can make a real mess of a situation, but I know and believe with my whole heart that our children know already at their young age and will grow to understand even more that their father loves them with the heart of the Father and that love will transcend all things both small and big. I love to watch you love our children and when I hear you call Ben "daddy's boy" or Grace your "little princess", or see you take the time to let Ben ride in the red car, or spend time with Grace when you are tired after a day's work just because she needs her dad I am so thankful that you are the father to our children. They are blessed to have you as their daddy and I am blessed to be your wife. Thank you for loving us the way only you can. You are our hero!
Love your Wife
1. You laugh at the kid's jokes even when they aren't funny.
2. You strive to make our daughter feel like a real princess.
3. You let Ben ride on the mower with you even though it would probably be faster and easier without him.
4. You can make even things that aren't fun like brushing teeth and going to bed an adventure.
5. You say I love you all the time.
6. The kids feel like they can talk to you because of your grace and kindness with them.
7. You always make sure to give them hugs and kisses before you leave each day.
8. You leave them little notes even though they can't read.
9. You give in to their silly wants like blue and pink cups after you have already poured milk in a red one, an entire glass of milk with cereal (which is totally unnecessary), sitting in the number two chair, or doing it over because that isn't the way Mommy does it (as Grace would say.)
10. You can be a kid with them and find the true joy in being a parent even though being a parent can be exhausting.
I see in you the heart of our Father, you have a deep desire to really know our kids, not just to raise them to be good people that make a difffernce in this world, but to really truly know them. To know their passions, their weaknesses, their loves, likes, and dislikes. To know their true heart and soul and to guide them and direct them according to that, not according to what job will make them most successful or what school will make them the smartest. I love the way that you love them. No we don't always get it perfect, shoot sometimes we can make a real mess of a situation, but I know and believe with my whole heart that our children know already at their young age and will grow to understand even more that their father loves them with the heart of the Father and that love will transcend all things both small and big. I love to watch you love our children and when I hear you call Ben "daddy's boy" or Grace your "little princess", or see you take the time to let Ben ride in the red car, or spend time with Grace when you are tired after a day's work just because she needs her dad I am so thankful that you are the father to our children. They are blessed to have you as their daddy and I am blessed to be your wife. Thank you for loving us the way only you can. You are our hero!
Love your Wife
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Marseilles Dress SHABBY APPLE GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!
Marseilles Dress SHABBY APPLE GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!
Love this dress, I want to have it! Had to link in hopes of adding this lovely dress to my wardrobe!
Love this dress, I want to have it! Had to link in hopes of adding this lovely dress to my wardrobe!
Thursday, June 11, 2009
We are Army Strong
So . . . what does the army have to do with my blog might you ask? Peter is taking a job with the army, he is swearing in as an active duty soldier on Monday. Shocked? Most people have been when we have told them. So here are the details and answers to the most commonly asked questions. 1. We don't know where we are going yet it will take 30 to 90 days to get orders to where we will be stationed. 2. No, he does not have to go to basic training. He is not enlisting in the army, but is being commissioned as an officer. Which actually takes approval through the Senate. 3. He will be going in at the rank of captain. 4. Yes, we are super excited to start this new adventure in our life!
So if you know anyone who would love to purchase our beautiful home in a great neighborhood with a great yard, it is officially for sale because we are moving!
So if you know anyone who would love to purchase our beautiful home in a great neighborhood with a great yard, it is officially for sale because we are moving!
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
The Promise of a Mother's Prayers
I have a devotional book called "The Promise of a Mother's Prayers" and it has been my favorite for years. I have probably gone through it at least 4 different time and am on my 5th. The book is divided into 31 different 2 page devotionals where Scharlotte Rich talks about the real deal of being a mom. She breaks the supermom myth and talks about the reality of what every mom struggles with patience, unconditional love . . . all the time. Here are a couple of the prayers that are included that have really stuck with me these last few days.
This one was after a devotional on what legacy you will pass onto your children:
Lord, thank you for the new legacy you have given me as your child of grace. Help me pass the things you have taught me on to my children so they can start a little ahead of where I was. Give me you wisdom as I raise them. Help me understand their strengths and teach them to follow you.
I pray for my children, that you would break any hold past sins and family weaknesses would have on them. Let what has been hidden come to light. Put your wall of protection around them. Grow their strengths and give them courage to walk in your ways, even though sometimes they will have to walk a differnt path from their friends and acquaintances. Give them hearts that are soft toward the things that matter to you. Prevent any ungodly legacies from being passed on to them. Please give each child a special gift that he or she can use for your glory and pass on as a new legacy.
After a devotional on not being a "perfect mom":
Thank you Father God, that your love is not based on my performance. Please open my eyes to any ways I may have unintentionally placed unrealistic expectations on my children. Please replace my worries with faith in you. Please help my children learn that you are trustworthy and that your love is on based on their performance.
i just loved these two, so I thought I would share. I have to say there is nothing more powerful than praying for your children and seeing what you have prayed for grow in them.
This one was after a devotional on what legacy you will pass onto your children:
Lord, thank you for the new legacy you have given me as your child of grace. Help me pass the things you have taught me on to my children so they can start a little ahead of where I was. Give me you wisdom as I raise them. Help me understand their strengths and teach them to follow you.
I pray for my children, that you would break any hold past sins and family weaknesses would have on them. Let what has been hidden come to light. Put your wall of protection around them. Grow their strengths and give them courage to walk in your ways, even though sometimes they will have to walk a differnt path from their friends and acquaintances. Give them hearts that are soft toward the things that matter to you. Prevent any ungodly legacies from being passed on to them. Please give each child a special gift that he or she can use for your glory and pass on as a new legacy.
After a devotional on not being a "perfect mom":
Thank you Father God, that your love is not based on my performance. Please open my eyes to any ways I may have unintentionally placed unrealistic expectations on my children. Please replace my worries with faith in you. Please help my children learn that you are trustworthy and that your love is on based on their performance.
i just loved these two, so I thought I would share. I have to say there is nothing more powerful than praying for your children and seeing what you have prayed for grow in them.
Monday, May 25, 2009
The Time Has Come
So I am officially sick of my weight. I went swimming with the kids today and felt like a total cow. I so want to lose weight, I am ready. Of course I am ready as I am slowly approaching 30 and now the weight will take twice as long to lose instead of me having done it right after the babies were born, but I am ready to buckle down and do it, better late than never. This is the summer I will drop 2 dress sizes. This is my goal, eat better and exercise. Less t.v., more activity, aerobics dvd, walking, running. By August there will be a new, better, slimmer, Angela Dell. I am going to post my progress, so hold me accountable.
Friday, May 22, 2009
My Benny
Benjamin is the sweetest little boy ever, here are a few of his latest.
He has become quite the Daddy's boy recently. Peter took him yesterday to get his hair cut (he looks so adorable), and that night when he prayed before bed, he prayed thank you that Daddy took him to get his haircut in the red car and that daddy was his "fabrit." I know, how adorable.
A couple of days ago, he was bouncing off the walls and I asked him why he was so happy? And his response was because he lubbed his mommy and daddy.
You have to love the innocent, pure heart of a little boy who loves his family! And whose mommy loves him lots and lots.
He has become quite the Daddy's boy recently. Peter took him yesterday to get his hair cut (he looks so adorable), and that night when he prayed before bed, he prayed thank you that Daddy took him to get his haircut in the red car and that daddy was his "fabrit." I know, how adorable.
A couple of days ago, he was bouncing off the walls and I asked him why he was so happy? And his response was because he lubbed his mommy and daddy.
You have to love the innocent, pure heart of a little boy who loves his family! And whose mommy loves him lots and lots.
The End
So Thursday I was faced with the end of my daughter's preschool years. She officially graduated from preschool and will be going into kindergarten next year. It brought tears to my eyes and I have to admit, I am all watered up as I type right now about the fact that my baby girl is definitely no longer a baby. You know my mom always told me that once I had kids the time would fly, but I never really realized it until just recently when I looked around to see my daughter who will be 5 this year in kindergarten, my son who will be 3 this year and is Mr. Chatty Kathy.
I do have to say that she looked beautiful. She danced in a mini recital before her graduation, in her gorgeous costume with her hair all done up and looking like a perfect little fairy princess. It was so sweet to watch her sing and dance her little heart out "for Jesus" as she likes to remind me. After her recital she looked so sweet and proud as she walked across the stage to get her "diploma."
We also got her evaluation about all she can do both academically and her spiritual growth. As a mother I have to brag and say that not only has she done a great job mastering her academics, but under her spiritual growth her teacher commented that she has a great command in this area! Good Job Baby Girl!
I do have to say that she looked beautiful. She danced in a mini recital before her graduation, in her gorgeous costume with her hair all done up and looking like a perfect little fairy princess. It was so sweet to watch her sing and dance her little heart out "for Jesus" as she likes to remind me. After her recital she looked so sweet and proud as she walked across the stage to get her "diploma."
We also got her evaluation about all she can do both academically and her spiritual growth. As a mother I have to brag and say that not only has she done a great job mastering her academics, but under her spiritual growth her teacher commented that she has a great command in this area! Good Job Baby Girl!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Loose Teeth Vintage Inspired Sundress with Petticoat GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!
Loose Teeth Vintage Inspired Sundress with Petticoat GUEST GIVEAWAY!!!!
Check it out super cute, I have fallen in love with hand made clothes, I think I might have to learn to sew!
Check it out super cute, I have fallen in love with hand made clothes, I think I might have to learn to sew!
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Annoying
Ever been around someone that totally grates your nerves and you would like for them to leave, but unfortunately, they can't and won't and plan on sticking around? I am there.
The End . . . of Babies
So the end of school is near for my little princess. I can't believe it is already May. She is going to be leaving preschool and next year will be in kindergarten and I can't believe it. Sometimes I look at her and I have to do a double take because I am expecting someone smaller more baby like and not the big girl that is in front of me.
In fact, the other day I went to the park with a friend and I was looking around for Grace and couldn't find her, I started to get nervous, when my girlfriend said, there she is right there under the slide, and I looked quickly and said that it wasn't her . . . that little girl was too big to be mine, but low and behold it was.
She does her dance recital next week, and her graduation two weeks following. I am going to try not to cry when my baby walks in her little cap, but I am sure I will. I have recently been so taken with how big my little ones have gotten, they are growing so fast right before my eyes.
My Benjamin, my little man is growing like a weed, talking like crazy, and moving non stop. Although they are getting big, my heart sometimes still sees them toddling around in a diaper and a onesies with a juice stained mouth, and cookie on their faces, and I think it might always be that way.
In fact, the other day I went to the park with a friend and I was looking around for Grace and couldn't find her, I started to get nervous, when my girlfriend said, there she is right there under the slide, and I looked quickly and said that it wasn't her . . . that little girl was too big to be mine, but low and behold it was.
She does her dance recital next week, and her graduation two weeks following. I am going to try not to cry when my baby walks in her little cap, but I am sure I will. I have recently been so taken with how big my little ones have gotten, they are growing so fast right before my eyes.
My Benjamin, my little man is growing like a weed, talking like crazy, and moving non stop. Although they are getting big, my heart sometimes still sees them toddling around in a diaper and a onesies with a juice stained mouth, and cookie on their faces, and I think it might always be that way.
Monday, March 23, 2009
The refrigerator
So I bought a refrigerator off of craigslist (from a used appliance store in St. Pete). Not a bad deal, until it stopped working a week after I bought it. So today I called the guy who sold it to me and told him I would like my money back less the delivery charge and he could come and get the fridge. I cannot tell you how totally scared I was, like I was getting ready to give a formal address to a million people or something. So I am shaking in my boots trying to tell this man I would like my money back, the question is why? I still can't figure out why I was such a mess about asking for my money back when the fridge he sold me broke after a week?
The strange thing is I seem to have this problem in other areas too, like car repairs, I swear I feel like I'm 10 years old instead of a grown woman with two children that can ask questions and refuse things if I feel they are up to the standard I want.
Talking to this guy today, the feelings I felt inside were the same type of butterflies as when I was a child and I had to go ask a grown up that I didn't know for something, like a refill on my drink, or excuse me can you tell me where the bathroom is? I think I need to work on this because it is bugging me. I'm an adult for crying out loud? What am I exactly afraid of?
The strange thing is I seem to have this problem in other areas too, like car repairs, I swear I feel like I'm 10 years old instead of a grown woman with two children that can ask questions and refuse things if I feel they are up to the standard I want.
Talking to this guy today, the feelings I felt inside were the same type of butterflies as when I was a child and I had to go ask a grown up that I didn't know for something, like a refill on my drink, or excuse me can you tell me where the bathroom is? I think I need to work on this because it is bugging me. I'm an adult for crying out loud? What am I exactly afraid of?
Friday, March 6, 2009
The Fair
So we took the kids to a mini fair tonight. We had intentions to go the Strawberry Festival, but the traffic was ridiculous, so we pulled into the mall and there was a little carnival there. The kids had a blast. I am always amazed at how riding the same 6 rides over and over that all just seem to go around in a circle essentially (Elephants in a circle, train in a circle, cars in a circle, dragons in a circle) thrill them to no end. But 3 hours, 2 corn dogs, 2 stuffed seals, and 2 happy children later we are home! Not a bad night.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Complicated
When did life get so complicated? I must have missed the memo that said things are going to get complicated so hold on tight and sometimes I feel totally unprepared?
Monday, March 2, 2009
Jewelry
I have no idea who reads this blog, however I am going to proselytize my jewelry business for one short moment. My calendar is severly low on shows (which pays for Grace's school tuition) and I really need to add 2 shows to my calendar in order to be on track. So if you would just love to have me over with some of your girlfriends and get some free jewelry in the process, I am available, I do travel for shows, and you would be doing me a huge favor in the process!
Okay, campaigning for shows over and on to the deep questions of life, like how in the world do every pair of socks my kids own get filthy dirty on the bottom? Why does my son always seem to be out of underwear? and why is it that one load of kids clothes seem to take forever to fold? How do kids get a stain on all their "nice" clothes, but play clothes seem to stay pristine? Why do girls change clothes so often? And why are my kids so quiet??????????
Okay, campaigning for shows over and on to the deep questions of life, like how in the world do every pair of socks my kids own get filthy dirty on the bottom? Why does my son always seem to be out of underwear? and why is it that one load of kids clothes seem to take forever to fold? How do kids get a stain on all their "nice" clothes, but play clothes seem to stay pristine? Why do girls change clothes so often? And why are my kids so quiet??????????
Poker
My family and I celebrated my brother's 24th birthday on Friday. We played some Texas Hold'em poker. I have to say I am a terrible poker player. I never know if I have anything, and can't seem to keep up with the bets. I did however have a lot of fun playing. I have to say there is something really liberating when you push in all your chips and say "All In" even if you have no idea if you have anything worth saying that.
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Bye Bye Diapers and other little tid bits
Benjamin Joseph Dell is officially potty trained!!! That means bye bye diapers in the Dell household. I am not sad to leave them behind. And I can't tell you how adorable Ben is running around in his little underoo briefs! He is growing up to be such a sweet little boy.
Speaking of sweet boys. Peter and I went to see the play Frost Nixion. I got dressed up (I do not often wear an actual dress, so definitely a big deal) and when I came out of the bathroom in my dress, Ben was sitting on the floor playing with a pile of pencils, he looked up and said, "Pretty dress mama." Yes, he melted my heart, and yes I got a little teary eyed.
Speaking of sweet boys. Peter and I went to see the play Frost Nixion. I got dressed up (I do not often wear an actual dress, so definitely a big deal) and when I came out of the bathroom in my dress, Ben was sitting on the floor playing with a pile of pencils, he looked up and said, "Pretty dress mama." Yes, he melted my heart, and yes I got a little teary eyed.
Temper
So I have a tendency to sometimes lose my cool with my little ones. I am going to do better at counting to 10, taking a breather, and staying calm so I can see them for who they really are - a 4 year old and a 2 year old, who are learning and growing everyday soaking up every move I make so that they know how to be adults themselves. I so often feel like I want them to leave behind their baby ways and throw away their plate without being asked, pick up after themselves, and not bother me when I am on a business phone call. However, I think those are unfair expectations of them. They are so young and still learning all that, they will have the rest of their lives to be grown ups. I know I need to relish this baby time, because before I know it they won't be kids anymore and I will want back that snuggle time. I will wish I spent more time cuddling and playing and less time nit picking.
Monday, February 2, 2009
Cool
So this conversation happened with Grace today. She is growing up too fast. I am not ready for cool, I haven't had enough of innocent sweetness.
Grace: I love the Jonas Brothers, they are so cool.
Me: Really what exactly makes them cool?
Grace: Just look at them, they are totally cool.
Me: Why?
Grace: Mom, they are totally rocking out on stage!
Me: What about Hannah Montana?
Grace: She rocks it out too, she's cool.
Me: What about Belle?
Grace: Well, she sings good, but she doesn't rock it out, she just sings princess songs.
Me: (Dancing around) Is this rocking it out?
Grace: No you have to sing too.
Me: (Dancing and singing Twinkle, Twinkle) Now am I rocking it out?
Grace: (Laughing and smiling) uh . . . Yeah (Not very convincing)
Grace: Singing the ABC song more like a rap than the regular way) This is rocking it out, I totally rock it out mom, see?
I am not ready for rocking it out, cool, or any of that. I need a few more years to prepare, thank goodness she doesn't like boys yet, I don't think I could handle that.
Grace: I love the Jonas Brothers, they are so cool.
Me: Really what exactly makes them cool?
Grace: Just look at them, they are totally cool.
Me: Why?
Grace: Mom, they are totally rocking out on stage!
Me: What about Hannah Montana?
Grace: She rocks it out too, she's cool.
Me: What about Belle?
Grace: Well, she sings good, but she doesn't rock it out, she just sings princess songs.
Me: (Dancing around) Is this rocking it out?
Grace: No you have to sing too.
Me: (Dancing and singing Twinkle, Twinkle) Now am I rocking it out?
Grace: (Laughing and smiling) uh . . . Yeah (Not very convincing)
Grace: Singing the ABC song more like a rap than the regular way) This is rocking it out, I totally rock it out mom, see?
I am not ready for rocking it out, cool, or any of that. I need a few more years to prepare, thank goodness she doesn't like boys yet, I don't think I could handle that.
Friday, January 30, 2009
Okay, so I had my first confrontation on facebook today over something totally ridiculous. I swear people can get some real courage when they don't have to look at you face to face.
So, I wrote a comment to a note that someone wrote, you know those 25 random things note that have been going around. Anyway, on her note she said that she has always dreamed of becoming a teacher. I said, that she should totally do it and that if public school had more great teachers like I know she would be, it would be better off. And to let me know when she got her degree so Ben and Grace could be in her class. The comment was meant to encourage a woman to pursue her dream of teaching, not to slam the teaching profession of which I am a part of and plan to return to once the kids are in school.
So this girl who I don't know, how convenient for her, writes she doesn't like confrontation, but has not trouble expressing how she feels and goes into this diatribe about how the best people she knows are teachers and they work so hard (like I don't already know that), and if society would embrace teachers, kids would be better off.
Obviously this tirade was meant for me in regards to my comment. So in the interest of clarifying what I meant I wrote back that I know there are great people in public school, and just like there are great people, there are also those that aren't and I simply wanted to encourage Katie to pursue her dream.
What I didn't say in the interest of being rational was, Hey, get off your high horse, I was and still plan to return to being a teacher and while I have worked with some amazing women I have also worked with some women that I would never want to teach my kids and if you think every person who enters into the teaching field is a gem who society should embrace then you have lost your mind. I don't even want to mention all the teachers in the news who have not been above reproach and all the women who have been in the field so long they are resistant to change even though it may be better for our children. My note was meant to encourage HELLO, how about you do the same.
Or maybe a simple BITE ME would have worked too.
So, I wrote a comment to a note that someone wrote, you know those 25 random things note that have been going around. Anyway, on her note she said that she has always dreamed of becoming a teacher. I said, that she should totally do it and that if public school had more great teachers like I know she would be, it would be better off. And to let me know when she got her degree so Ben and Grace could be in her class. The comment was meant to encourage a woman to pursue her dream of teaching, not to slam the teaching profession of which I am a part of and plan to return to once the kids are in school.
So this girl who I don't know, how convenient for her, writes she doesn't like confrontation, but has not trouble expressing how she feels and goes into this diatribe about how the best people she knows are teachers and they work so hard (like I don't already know that), and if society would embrace teachers, kids would be better off.
Obviously this tirade was meant for me in regards to my comment. So in the interest of clarifying what I meant I wrote back that I know there are great people in public school, and just like there are great people, there are also those that aren't and I simply wanted to encourage Katie to pursue her dream.
What I didn't say in the interest of being rational was, Hey, get off your high horse, I was and still plan to return to being a teacher and while I have worked with some amazing women I have also worked with some women that I would never want to teach my kids and if you think every person who enters into the teaching field is a gem who society should embrace then you have lost your mind. I don't even want to mention all the teachers in the news who have not been above reproach and all the women who have been in the field so long they are resistant to change even though it may be better for our children. My note was meant to encourage HELLO, how about you do the same.
Or maybe a simple BITE ME would have worked too.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
MIA
So I know that I have been missing in action this month, but it has been CRAZY!! I have had school stuff with Grace, regional conference for Premier, and helping Peter with Life Builders. All my pistons are running and I am beat . . . but in a good way.
So here is what has been going on (I am sure you are dying to know, edge of your seat right?):
Peter and I and Life Builders is expanding, he has an office in Riverview, Brandon, and Bradenton now! We are so excited about new opportunities that God is opening up and continue to pray for his hand of blessing on the counselors and Life Builders as they go out into the community.
Peter is going on a trip to California to visit the largest Christian Counseling Center in California! They are going to give him the tour and talk with him about what they do, how they became so successful, and all those type things. He is totally excited about it. I know it is going to be really great to see a picture of what Life Builders could be in our community.
I contemplated scaling back my Premier business to go back to teaching, but after thought and regional rally, I decided not to. I do miss teaching alot, but I really do enjoy being a part of Premier and doing home shows, and I make good money with a super flexible schedule, so I am going to stick with it and press on through this year. My goal is to make designer which is 7 sponsored jewelers and 36 home shows. It is definitely doable and I am super excited to give it a try, Premier is a really awesome company and I really love my fellow jewelers and my upline is fantastic . . .so I am making strides in the right direction.
I am thinking about teaching preschool at BSBA where the kids go to school. It would be 3 mornings a week so I could feed the need to teach and have my little class without a full time classroom. I also would still get to be home when my babies are home which is the most important part of all. That was the biggest reason why I decided to continue with Premier, I get to work in the evenings and any schedule I want so I can work when Peter is home instead of them being in daycare or with a sitter.
Grace had Donuts with Dad and made him a faux wood pencil holder from an aluminum can. She was so proud of it and was dying to give it to him. When I asked her about how it was she informed me that the donuts were so awesome and tasty. Peter told me later that she ate the entire donut . . . quickly.
Peter and the kids went to Michigan were Ben was a ring bearer in a wedding, he looked so stinkin' adorable in his little suit, nothing like 5 below and 12 inches of snow to make you appreciate Florida and its sunny climate.
As for the 5K, I still don't know about it. I haven't quite started running . . . at all so my guess is I might have waited too long to get my butt in gear.
So here is what has been going on (I am sure you are dying to know, edge of your seat right?):
Peter and I and Life Builders is expanding, he has an office in Riverview, Brandon, and Bradenton now! We are so excited about new opportunities that God is opening up and continue to pray for his hand of blessing on the counselors and Life Builders as they go out into the community.
Peter is going on a trip to California to visit the largest Christian Counseling Center in California! They are going to give him the tour and talk with him about what they do, how they became so successful, and all those type things. He is totally excited about it. I know it is going to be really great to see a picture of what Life Builders could be in our community.
I contemplated scaling back my Premier business to go back to teaching, but after thought and regional rally, I decided not to. I do miss teaching alot, but I really do enjoy being a part of Premier and doing home shows, and I make good money with a super flexible schedule, so I am going to stick with it and press on through this year. My goal is to make designer which is 7 sponsored jewelers and 36 home shows. It is definitely doable and I am super excited to give it a try, Premier is a really awesome company and I really love my fellow jewelers and my upline is fantastic . . .so I am making strides in the right direction.
I am thinking about teaching preschool at BSBA where the kids go to school. It would be 3 mornings a week so I could feed the need to teach and have my little class without a full time classroom. I also would still get to be home when my babies are home which is the most important part of all. That was the biggest reason why I decided to continue with Premier, I get to work in the evenings and any schedule I want so I can work when Peter is home instead of them being in daycare or with a sitter.
Grace had Donuts with Dad and made him a faux wood pencil holder from an aluminum can. She was so proud of it and was dying to give it to him. When I asked her about how it was she informed me that the donuts were so awesome and tasty. Peter told me later that she ate the entire donut . . . quickly.
Peter and the kids went to Michigan were Ben was a ring bearer in a wedding, he looked so stinkin' adorable in his little suit, nothing like 5 below and 12 inches of snow to make you appreciate Florida and its sunny climate.
As for the 5K, I still don't know about it. I haven't quite started running . . . at all so my guess is I might have waited too long to get my butt in gear.
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